The London Mindframe Part 3
Despite its capital status and the allure and privilege that comes with it, living and working in London hasn’t been easy this past year when you take into account how hard it’s been hit by both Brexit and Covid. We’re not going to dwell on that, though, as looking forward confidently and with a positive attitude is what’s really needed. So, as a nation with its fingers crossed, let’s march onwards towards those clear skies.
As part of the launch of Kirk Originals’ SS21 collection, we shot and spoke with eight men living and working in London on a number of topics; from what they’ve discovered in this great city, to how they’re really feeling inside and how to sustain a positive mind frame. Herein is Part 2, with Benedict Browne and Bola Odusina.
Benedict Browne
Wearing left to right: Bobby, Creed
First up, what’s your age, where are you based, what’s your profession and what’s your side hustle?
I’m 28-years-old and live in north west London in Kensal Rise, but Queens Park sounds better! I wear a few hats, I suppose. But I’m primarily a journalist and stylist, but to pay the bills I work directly with brands on content, marketing and brand development. As side hustles go, it’s pretty boring but health and fitness definitely – boxing is my thing. I want to design patches and sew them on to loopwheel sweatshirts and stuff, but haven’t quite got there yet. Watch this space haha.
How’s this last year been for you personally and how have you kept positive?
I consider myself really fortunate and lucky – I didn’t lose anyone close to me to Covid, and still had plenty of work to do and friends and family around me. So, I can’t complain. I also don’t mind being by myself, so being alone in lockdown wasn’t too taxing. In terms of keeping positive though… it’s 100% exercise. Running and getting out there. Never spend a whole day indoors and make the effort to speak to people who bring you up – from your mates to your family.
This last year has allowed us time to really look deep within ourselves. What did you learn about yourself and what’s the key to personal progression?
I’ve learned that I have so much more to learn about this world and how it can be a better place. I grew up in a privileged bubble which isn’t real, you know. Reading and ingesting information on all of the injustices in the world, especially in the last year whether that’s in London, Minneapolis or in Xinjiang. I’m not a role model for personal progression, but I’d say it’s making yourself accountable for your actions and goals. Make lists and tick them each day while establishing productive consistency.
What lessons could London learn from this last year in how to cultivate and nurture a better and more inclusive society?
Respect one another more. Simple as that. I think London is becoming a better place as a result of Covid but there’s still a long way to go. We need to respect each other more and help one another – from giving someone space to calling out those that are doing wrong. We all need to try and be a positive influence in our communities.
What does modern-day confidence mean to you and how would you define it as a Londoner?
I guess as a Londoner, it follows on from the last question. Being confident enough to be a good person and help people. It’s way too easy to keep your head down and ignore what’s going on around you. In addition to that, it’s having the courage to present yourself however you want. After all, we’re in London. There’s always going to be someone who’s louder than you.
You can follow Benedict on Instagram, here.
Bola Odusina
Wearing left to right: Hays, Anthony
First up, what’s your age, where are you based, what’s your profession and what’s your side hustle? From a running separate business to a recreational activity/sport.
I’m 30-years-old and I live in south London. Monday to Friday I work in business development at a Big Four firm (can’t say who!) and when I’m not doing that, I suppose my side hustle is being a model and content creator, working with menswear brands and companies in that lifestyle area, I guess.
How’s this last year been for you personally and how have you kept positive?
This last year has been challenging adapting to the new way of living but there have also been positives. Working from home has been productive and being in lockdown has provided ample time for self-reflection and growth.
This last year has allowed us time to really look deep within ourselves. What did you learn about yourself and what’s the key to personal progression?
I switched up my routine and had more time for self-care and fitness. I was able to block out some time and slow down which was a much-needed change from the constant busyness of pre lockdown life. The key to personal progression is to set goals and timeframes to achieve the goals. Despite gyms being closed, I was still able to achieve my fitness goals doing workouts at home.
What lessons could London learn from this last year in how to cultivate and nurture a better and more inclusive society?
I think this period has made people more compassionate, a lot of social issues have sparked widespread debate and there is a real desire for positive change.
What does modern-day confidence mean to you and how would you define it as a Londoner?
Confidence is about being your unapologetic self. It is about embracing new experiences and not being afraid to fail. London is full of diversity, a mix of eclectic styles. It is fantastic to see such uniqueness through the lens of fashion and style. It’s part of what makes London an exciting place to live.
You can follow Bola on Instagram, here.